tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post3806891708790654633..comments2023-11-03T02:33:39.271-07:00Comments on The Elderly Ovary: Hospital JailLorrainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04180034761243431694noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-87734036212123293832010-03-15T20:11:38.699-07:002010-03-15T20:11:38.699-07:00Ah yes. Even the good ones can be a big turd some...Ah yes. Even the good ones can be a big turd sometimes. Case in point in the room next door to me at the moment. You need a girlfriend to help!Midlife Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07833139128928841397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-36060997622213699502010-02-11T21:41:08.411-08:002010-02-11T21:41:08.411-08:00First of all, I am so glad you and your baby are d...First of all, I am so glad you and your baby are doing ok.<br /><br />Now, about your husband. I must confess, at first I was thinking "maybe he really is really sick, no excuse but maybe understandable." And then he went to watch basketball. Now I am speechless. What is the bum thinking?Evergreenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02258314583046975642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-16102575159847349412010-02-11T21:25:46.006-08:002010-02-11T21:25:46.006-08:00I don't even know what to say about your hubby...I don't even know what to say about your hubby except that I am sorry!<br /><br />I'm emailing you my number and I insist that you use it should this kind of need rise again. I can be there in under an hour with spinach salad and toothbrush in hand. <br /><br />Hang in there!! You are so close now.Lost in Spacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07027117135940864685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-79275937813348992672010-02-11T14:20:52.419-08:002010-02-11T14:20:52.419-08:00Here, here for raising a loving, considerate littl...Here, here for raising a loving, considerate little man who will always sit by his wife's bedside and take her spinach salads!<br /><br />Hold on little man. Grow and mature your little lungs.<br /><br />I'm not going to say anything about how I had major asthma/bronchitis in the third trimester of pregnancy and still sucked it up and did what I had to do because I don't want to make you dwell on what a putz your husband was. <br /><br />Sometimes we have to just remind ourselves of their good qualities and why we married them. <br /><br />Nobody will always do what you want them to do or what you would have done. You have to let them know the things that you can and can't live with. Then you move forward and they know what you expect of them. <br /><br />Breathe, forgive, move on.Wombdedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12774152022821286259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-71214365862467432832010-02-11T10:32:21.934-08:002010-02-11T10:32:21.934-08:00What a bum!
Your worthless hubby has not furthere...What a bum! <br />Your worthless hubby has not furthered the cause of male-kind one little bit. A pox on him -at some time when you and children are gone so you don't get it too.<br /><br />And now. Move on. He was a bum, undeserving of the wonderful little bundle that you are doing your best to bring into the world.<br /><br />I'm big on don't get mad, get even. Your chance will come and when it does - sock it to him.<br /><br />Leave it at that. Relax be of good cheer and see if you can get to week 35.RoseAGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01360864547510178832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-80380851586016434002010-02-11T10:06:59.676-08:002010-02-11T10:06:59.676-08:00ummmmm... well, i thought there might be something...ummmmm... well, i thought there might be something wrong since we hadn't heard from you in a while, i'm really glad that the contractions subsided but your husband. holy shit. i mean i'm not 100% sure i would want my husband to be there if he were sick because i would be afraid of catching whatever he had, but he would be beside himself if that happened and he couldn't be with me. also, my mom or dad would probably come and be with me if he couldn't be there, not sure if that's an option for you, i don't do well in those situations alone though so if i couldn't have my husband, mom or dad there i would probably have to call a friend or something. i hate to think of you all alone in the hospital.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-43093976676398552582010-02-10T21:36:39.435-08:002010-02-10T21:36:39.435-08:00Nooooo! Please say he was not that selfish! Unbe...Nooooo! Please say he was not that selfish! Unbelievable. It's tragic when our husbands do things that forever taint the way we feel about our relationship with them. Mine has done them too. I'm so sorry you had to be in hospital jail, eating crap food, bored, and managing without a toothbrush or shower. I have had the same thought as you: I want to raise my son to be a good, considerate, thoughtful man that the women are going to love!Best When Used Byhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17252417951291793892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-31669288244722433832010-02-10T19:16:59.833-08:002010-02-10T19:16:59.833-08:00Oh, I'm so sorry DH is being such a pain (I ha...Oh, I'm so sorry DH is being such a pain (I had another word for it, but figured I'd take the high road). I am however glad to hear that the meds stopped the contractions and all is well with the little guy. I've no doubt you'll raise a kind, compassionate man. The world will always need those!Shelbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06085283320884411888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-39473698466767037652010-02-10T19:05:38.565-08:002010-02-10T19:05:38.565-08:00Husbands! They are such babies when their sick. I&...Husbands! They are such babies when their sick. I'm glad you have made it so far. I've been reading(lurking) for a long time. So I've been routing for you!Natikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17052222654682853695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-59543175652294503692010-02-10T16:56:51.122-08:002010-02-10T16:56:51.122-08:00Oh man, your DH needs a wake up call. Seriously.
I...Oh man, your DH needs a wake up call. Seriously.<br />It reminds me of one of my fertile friends talking about her husband complaining about his feet hurting because he had to stand up for all the long hours of her long, excruciating labor. Men.<br /><br />Wish I lived closer!<br /><br />Thanks for the Hospice Austin suggestion. Did you know I used to work there? Weirdness. I didn't know you had any connection to Austin.lastchanceivfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14139576318784337837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-35657783230211197552010-02-10T14:52:20.680-08:002010-02-10T14:52:20.680-08:00I'm so sorry for the bleeding and the hospital...I'm so sorry for the bleeding and the hospital stay and the husband! Sometime they are definitely not what we'd hope them to be. I'm so glad you're 34 weeks already. <br /><br />As for the play yard -- we don't really have room in our house, but we're willing to give up our space for a little sanity. Several times today little guy has almost pulled a chair over on top of himself. We've gotten to where we keep all the doors closed off the hallway, but there's plenty in the living room that he can get into to. Good luck, I hope the remainder of your pregnancy is uneventful and that your hubby makes this up to you!Mindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16137863271039042064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-53216607812204990192010-02-10T13:55:48.421-08:002010-02-10T13:55:48.421-08:00Men. As they say, "can't live with 'e...Men. As they say, "can't live with 'em, can't shoot 'em." Sorry your hubby was less than optimal.Bad Egghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13816598778115494310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-50964586333108288142010-02-10T13:12:25.456-08:002010-02-10T13:12:25.456-08:00How horrible! What's wrong with guys sometime...How horrible! What's wrong with guys sometimes? I think they all have their moments. I'm hoping the rest of your pregnancy is uneventful!Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12798282017391489597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-31133462532587196652010-02-10T12:47:09.548-08:002010-02-10T12:47:09.548-08:00Oh, Lorraine! How horrible! I'm so sorry that...Oh, Lorraine! How horrible! I'm so sorry that your husband wasn't there for you when you needed him the MOST! That is just rotten and his actions unacceptable! I certainly would never be able to forgive him after a hurt like that. You have my total sympathy and if I lived near, I would have totally brought you a spinach grilled chicken salad! BIG, BIG HUGS! <br /><br />I'm glad that you are getting so close now though. A week and a half-- You can make it and I hope no more hospital trips are involved for your sake (and so that I don't have to rant on your dh again!)Jules a.k.a. Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11989173695131991310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-50296686931159233502010-02-10T12:10:27.395-08:002010-02-10T12:10:27.395-08:00Oh my! Gah, I can't believe he didn't com...Oh my! Gah, I can't believe he didn't come through for you. Even reluctantly! <br /><br />I'm glad you're 34 weeks. I knew you were close, but that's a good number. Hang in there.Paula Kellerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11545620300368378897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-36843802655167999492010-02-10T11:32:19.046-08:002010-02-10T11:32:19.046-08:00Oh hon. I would totally have brought you silly mag...Oh hon. I would totally have brought you silly magazines and lovely food - I can't believe your DH...except that I am married to him too! (as you know!) I hope his team got stomped at said Man Party.<br /><br />You take it easy, and please call others if you can to help you out (since he is useless in this arena). Thinking of you, funny how you are 3 weeks from the end and I'm 3 weeks from the beginning (hopefully).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com