tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post948084574526667220..comments2023-11-03T02:33:39.271-07:00Comments on The Elderly Ovary: My So-Called LuckLorrainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04180034761243431694noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-91797732019862151542009-03-03T13:14:00.000-08:002009-03-03T13:14:00.000-08:00How awful.I understand being hopeful in the face o...How awful.<BR/><BR/>I understand being hopeful in the face of facts - in fact, subconsciously ignoring the facts. I did the same thing with our first child.Kamihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01215000341567119958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-18268303130339434742009-02-22T14:50:00.000-08:002009-02-22T14:50:00.000-08:00Jeez I wish I could take it all away. I aggree wit...Jeez I wish I could take it all away. I aggree with Nikki in that you needed to hold onto the positive. A loss this late is a devastating loss.I am so sorry, and am here for you.<BR/>xoxoxLisa DGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02134785866812104866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-38619084694653902472009-02-21T17:53:00.000-08:002009-02-21T17:53:00.000-08:00Just a big hug Lorraine. Hope you're doing a litt...Just a big hug Lorraine. Hope you're doing a little better. I'm not liking the sad news lately. :(Skyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18288560043939554132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-58900097347040545322009-02-20T10:57:00.000-08:002009-02-20T10:57:00.000-08:00Words can't describe how sorry I am for your loss....Words can't describe how sorry I am for your loss. I can't imagine the pain that you feel, but just want you to know that I'm praying for you. There was no way for you to have known this. Please take care of yourself. ((hugs))Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11934296773153860236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-28633977065572360332009-02-16T08:25:00.000-08:002009-02-16T08:25:00.000-08:00No one has a crystal ball in this. Don't expect th...No one has a crystal ball in this. Don't expect that of yourself. All you can do is hope for the best and you did. While I'm a believer in intuition, I also believe that with already having a history of loss, you may have been tuning in to that feeling we've been taught to always have with IF: expect the fall. There is no way to know really whether it will come, though. <BR/><BR/>Lorraine, you are very often in my thoughts and I am wishing you peace and healing as much as it is possible. I am so, so sorry for your loss.Shelbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06085283320884411888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-50686435559578996022009-02-16T04:56:00.000-08:002009-02-16T04:56:00.000-08:00i was going to say what pretty much everyone else ...i was going to say what pretty much everyone else has. and honestly i think that all of us dealing with infertility expect <I>something</I>to go wrong at some point, so when you have your 'something' you don't necessarily worry about the other things, if that makes any sense. you felt like you knew the problems you were supposed to be worried about, how would you have thought of this?<BR/><BR/>i'm just so sorry for your loss.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01587725139301198392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-49919112857672804582009-02-14T14:58:00.000-08:002009-02-14T14:58:00.000-08:00Lorraine, such a tough break. You did everything ...Lorraine, such a tough break. You did everything you could have (and more) and you loved this baby. <BR/><BR/>Sending you hugs and warmth during such a difficult time.<BR/><BR/>SkySkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18288560043939554132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-86177707277454949682009-02-14T12:10:00.000-08:002009-02-14T12:10:00.000-08:00You are not an idiot, and if things wear going wel...You are not an idiot, and if things wear going well enough to fool your doctor, how could you have known differently? I read all of your posts, and it sounded like there were some issues (everyone has something, don't they?) but nothing that sounded really bad. <BR/><BR/>My heart aches for you. I am so very, very sorry. Please don't blame yourself. You didn't do anything wrong. <BR/><BR/>Big hugs.Midlife Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07833139128928841397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-14340822275918412672009-02-14T12:00:00.000-08:002009-02-14T12:00:00.000-08:00Oh, Lorraine, I am so sorry. There is just no way...Oh, Lorraine, I am so sorry. There is just no way you could have known, hun. No way. All the signs in the world could be there and we still hold onto hope that all will be fine. Many hugs, sweetie.Lost in Spacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07027117135940864685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-30851716167410590382009-02-14T11:35:00.000-08:002009-02-14T11:35:00.000-08:00Oh, how is anyone ever supposed to know whether th...Oh, how is anyone ever supposed to know whether things are going well or whether they have gone awry, especially given all of the positive signs along the way.<BR/><BR/>Please be kind to yourself.<BR/><BR/>I'm so very sorry. It was hard, hard, hard to deal with a miscarriage at 8 weeks, I can't even imagine 17 weeks.<BR/><BR/>My heart goes out to you Lorraine.Paula Kellerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11545620300368378897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4796780809065825294.post-50686930127395006682009-02-14T09:54:00.000-08:002009-02-14T09:54:00.000-08:00This is so tough Lorraine. I'm very sorry for your...This is so tough Lorraine. I'm very sorry for your pain and your loss. <BR/><BR/>Don't blame yourself for not knowing. How could you? If the OB was surprised to not find a hb, how could you have known? You needed to be focusing on being positive and confident, and you were doing a great job at that, considering everything you had been through to get where you were. <BR/><BR/>I'm sorry for everything you're going through. Please know that you have friends in the blog world that are praying for you and sending you much love and healing vibes.<BR/><BR/>Hugs!Nikkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15469466620967385694noreply@blogger.com